Most women have stumbled upon a “bad boy” at least once in their lives. Additionally, many of those women failed to resist the bad boy’s charms and later regretted it.
What are the characteristics of some bad people? Bad people are arrogant, selfish, possessive, careless, bold, avoid emotional attachments, break rules, underestimate, and insult people around you… it’s bad for company. What is it about bad boys that attracts so many women? Is it a challenge to make him fall in love, “capture” him, or change him? Here is a list of 10 reasons why some women find bad boys attractive.
- Cure for Boredom:
Bad boys are never boring. There is always something going on around them, and they are always involved in tense situations. Bad guys never say things like “I have an exam tomorrow; I should study and rest,” “That journey is too far,” or “It’s dangerous to do something like that.” They are always ready for action. Women often fall for these types of men after they get out of a boring long relationship. - Exciting and Unpredictable:
Good guys play it safe once they get into a long relationship. They do things that have worked in the past and stick to them. Therefore, you can always predict where they will take you for dinner, what you will do on weekend nights, what you will talk about, etc. Their actions are never routine. They surprise you by taking you to a different town unannounced, constantly introducing you to a new circle of people, and changing plans every hour or so. Many women love the dose of excitement and danger that these guys carry. - Bad Boys Don’t Follow the Rules, They Write the Rules:
Speed limits, drunk driving, and safety belts don’t exist in the world of bad boys. They are the “alpha male” of their organization, and they write the rules, not the law. Also, their “I don’t care about the consequences” attitude works dangerously, and danger can sometimes act as an aphrodisiac. - Mystery:
Mystery attracts like a strong magnet, and bad boys use it like a trump card to win over women. Bad guys are secretive about what’s going on every day, but also in terms of their feelings. It has been scientifically proven that women are more attracted to men who send mixed signals (hot and cold) about whether they like them or not. Bad boys create the illusion that they have a dark side or a secret that no one else can discover. - Bad Boys are Dominant and Protective:
Men have been protecting women since prehistoric times; hence, women want a partner who makes them feel safe and protected. Bad guys can give the impression that they know how to protect the woman by their side, so it’s no wonder that many women fall for it. - Bad Boys are Confident:
Women are attracted to bad boys because of their bad behavior, but they shine with masculine energy and great confidence. Strong, bold, and sexy work like a magnet for both men and women. - Bad Boys Know to Say “No” Firmly:
Nice guys are often manipulated by women. In other words, among them, women are more likely to get what they want. Some may be surprised or opposed to this, but women are attracted to men who know how to say “no,” “enough,” and “stop already.” - Bad Boys are Persistent in Wooing a Woman:
Bad boys never shy away from standing at the bar while changing think 100 times whether to approach the attractive beauty who is 2 meters away from them. They just stand and work. When a woman wants to reject them, they don’t give up easily and don’t stop until they hear “yes.” Women want to “hunt” and be conquered. - Challenge:
“Don’t go out with him; he breaks your heart” has the complete opposite effect on some women. Instead of listening to advice, they see it as a challenge. When they hear the advice, they want to prove everyone wrong and run straight into the bad boy’s arms. Women are caring in nature and feel that they can change bad boys and put them on the right path. Some women find bad boys problematic and therefore challenge them to change. - The Forbidden Fruit:
It further advises a woman to avoid certain things person; she is more interested to know why. Therefore, many women go solo to find out what is so wrong with these guys. In adolescence, when parents strictly forbid contact with such people, the desire to obtain the forbidden fruit increases.
Bad guys are fun for one night, but not fun when planning a future with them. They are attractive until a woman sees that their bad qualities far outweigh their good qualities.
The ideal man is somewhere between evil and good. But who is perfect? Find someone who is trying.